Children some bad habits, looking at may be small, so parents can easily be overlooked, but very difficult to modify the habit once, so my parents to pay attention to whether your child has the following daily habits:
1, interrupting his speech
child may sometimes be very excited to tell you some things, but, if they allow him to interrupt you when you talk, it may make the child feel that he is to have the privilege to get people's attention, and can not stand others ignore him, which may in the future self-centered.
Solution: If a child ran up pestering you speak, you can point to the stool to sit and let him past the end of your speech before going to keep quiet; If you want to call or see friends, tell them to keep quiet And do not bother you, and then arranged for him other activities. Your goal is to let him know that if interrupt your speech difficult for him to achieve his objective.
2, pretended not to hear you
keep your child repeat or remind you of the request, command, will cause the child to develop to wait for your reminder, and not pay attention to what you said, will gradually develop to ignore what you say. If this habit continues, he may become arrogant, does not respect others.
Solution: Try not to talk long distance with the child, the child walked in front of him clear your request. When you speak, ask the child look at you, and should respond.
3, attitude frivolous
your child is not a side to talk to you a very frivolous side to make faces or talk to you the attitude of the situation, many children have these behaviors, especially children, and their purpose is to test the reaction of the parents. Many parents may ignore such behavior, that child is still small, it is just a transitional phase, but if you keep the kids as soon as possible to correct, he may be difficult to get along with others.
Solution: Be sure to let the child know that their behavior is inappropriate. For example, when children talk to you roll your eyes, you can tell him that this behavior shows that he does not like you said, you can stop to talk to him and walked away, and then told him that if his attitude will change for the better with time him.
4, exaggerated the facts
you may feel that their kids bragging in front of other children is not a big problem, but the phenomenon should be stopped as soon as possible from the source. Because if children will find themselves comfortable boast that he will soon develop the habit of always lying and shirking responsibility.
Solution: When children lie, you should stop and clearly lie with the child harm, let him understand that lying about more, people might not trust his words. Clear about their children while also understanding the purpose of lying, let him understand that his purpose even if not necessarily lying can be achieved. Correct this phenomenon, story-telling is a good method of education, especially in contrast the smaller children.
help children form good habits and methods
experience expose other people, it is best to develop
good habit to produce their own prime table with a simple calendar, the date is one month to allow the child to want to write this month habit up, and then let the children each day following the date of their evaluation, if the day done to draw pigeon, did not do to draw the wrong number. The end of the month and then talk with the child's experience and feelings.
Family Mom and Dad can contract several requests to the children, the children can give parents several requests, if done, what incentives, if not done, what kind of punishment. These are written down, both sides confirmed, signed between children and parents as required supervision.
1, interrupting his speech
child may sometimes be very excited to tell you some things, but, if they allow him to interrupt you when you talk, it may make the child feel that he is to have the privilege to get people's attention, and can not stand others ignore him, which may in the future self-centered.
Solution: If a child ran up pestering you speak, you can point to the stool to sit and let him past the end of your speech before going to keep quiet; If you want to call or see friends, tell them to keep quiet And do not bother you, and then arranged for him other activities. Your goal is to let him know that if interrupt your speech difficult for him to achieve his objective.
2, pretended not to hear you
keep your child repeat or remind you of the request, command, will cause the child to develop to wait for your reminder, and not pay attention to what you said, will gradually develop to ignore what you say. If this habit continues, he may become arrogant, does not respect others.
Solution: Try not to talk long distance with the child, the child walked in front of him clear your request. When you speak, ask the child look at you, and should respond.
3, attitude frivolous
your child is not a side to talk to you a very frivolous side to make faces or talk to you the attitude of the situation, many children have these behaviors, especially children, and their purpose is to test the reaction of the parents. Many parents may ignore such behavior, that child is still small, it is just a transitional phase, but if you keep the kids as soon as possible to correct, he may be difficult to get along with others.
Solution: Be sure to let the child know that their behavior is inappropriate. For example, when children talk to you roll your eyes, you can tell him that this behavior shows that he does not like you said, you can stop to talk to him and walked away, and then told him that if his attitude will change for the better with time him.
4, exaggerated the facts
you may feel that their kids bragging in front of other children is not a big problem, but the phenomenon should be stopped as soon as possible from the source. Because if children will find themselves comfortable boast that he will soon develop the habit of always lying and shirking responsibility.
Solution: When children lie, you should stop and clearly lie with the child harm, let him understand that lying about more, people might not trust his words. Clear about their children while also understanding the purpose of lying, let him understand that his purpose even if not necessarily lying can be achieved. Correct this phenomenon, story-telling is a good method of education, especially in contrast the smaller children.
help children form good habits and methods
experience expose other people, it is best to develop
good habit to produce their own prime table with a simple calendar, the date is one month to allow the child to want to write this month habit up, and then let the children each day following the date of their evaluation, if the day done to draw pigeon, did not do to draw the wrong number. The end of the month and then talk with the child's experience and feelings.
Family Mom and Dad can contract several requests to the children, the children can give parents several requests, if done, what incentives, if not done, what kind of punishment. These are written down, both sides confirmed, signed between children and parents as required supervision.
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